tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3819457662362650663.post617107479529449244..comments2024-01-31T09:07:07.862-06:00Comments on In Search of Tango: Femininity and Feminism in Tango (I)Paul Yanghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10850021582471988048noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3819457662362650663.post-61425820374151869822014-11-23T04:14:08.809-06:002014-11-23T04:14:08.809-06:00I am sorry I cannot totally agree with your legali...I am sorry I cannot totally agree with your legalist and power struggle approach. The causes of cheating are complicated, as you know it. One's approach could contribute to the other's violation, although the latter is the one who crossed the legal line. As to tango, I believe the "if he is aggressive so I have to be intimidate as well, or he is weak so I have to take control in a power vacuum" approach, is not the right approach. One has to rid that kind of attitude to dance tango well.Paul Yanghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10850021582471988048noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3819457662362650663.post-1361957875342251442014-11-22T23:09:15.696-06:002014-11-22T23:09:15.696-06:00Wow, it just keeps getting worse as I read through...Wow, it just keeps getting worse as I read through these blog posts. A woman can be feminine and still be equal with a man. I'm not sure what you mean by competing with men. We aren't trying to compete with men. Women just want to be respected for the work we do, whatever that work may be. You are actually blaming women for men choosing to have sex with other men? How on earth do you actually find that logical. I guess women are to blame for men cheating on them as well? There is one simple fact in all of this that I can share with you as a divorce attorney of 11 years. When a man lets a woman control the relationship, the relationship is doomed. When it is a partnership with mutual respect given to the man's role and the woman's role, then it should, in theory, thrive. If a man is passive with a woman, she will take control in a power vacuum. I have to be a strong woman..I have to know how to be aggressive and intimidate when or if I need to. I also have to know when to be soft and feminine and respect my partner's masculinity and allow him to be a man and feel like a man. Those things aren't mutually exclusive in a woman Paul. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com