The reason we dance tango has something to do with the gloomy side of life. Some people say they dance tango because they like tango music, but they can listen to tango music at home. Some say they like the movements, but they can do movements in other dance forms as well. Some say they like the unrestrained nature of tango, but martial arts may give them the same satisfaction. Some say tango is artistically challenging, but ballet raises that bar even higher. If these were the only reasons people dance tango, then there would not be tango, because the alternatives are many.
Tango triumphs for a unique reason. While most dances are created to celebrate
life, tango serves a different purpose. It is created by the least fortunate
to shelter their sorrows. They do not come to the milonga to play peacocks,
but to expose their vulnerability and seek comfort, to dance the loneliness,
homesickness, nostalgia and grief in them, to find a shoulder to rely on, to
take refuge for their wounds, to quench their thirst for love, and to touch
and be touched by another human being. These are ordinary people - poor
people, immigrants, construction workers, waiters, waitresses, shop
assistants, maids and taxi drivers. They may not be splendid in their
appearance, but you feel it when you dance with them. Their embrace is warm
and consoling, their feeling is sincere and deep, their heart is sympathetic
and sensitive, their movement is raw and infectious, and their dance is
affectionate and sentimental. Tango is their refuge. The intimate, soulful,
sensual and comforting nature of tango reflects and serves their deep, inward,
human needs. This is the tango still danced in less affluent societies, such
as Argentina and Uruguay.
Not all people share these needs, of course. Successful people, arrogant
people, affluent people, and superficial people, for instance, like the beauty
of tango but don’t embrace its purpose. Instead, they use tango to celebrate
their life, to glorify their success, to show off their style, to display
their ego, and to boast their superiority. The traditional tango is too modest
for them, so they make changes - opening up the embrace, inventing fancy
steps, adding ostentatious tricks, using exotic music, etc. As a result, they
created a peacocky version of tango. It looks flashy and feels empty. This
kind of tango now is the fashion in opulent societies such as ours.
Tango has survived many challenges in the past. It will survive this one as
well, I believe, because needs, desires, yearnings, loneliness, love,
interdependence, tenderness, sentimentalism and romanticism are an intrinsic
part of human nature even among the toughest. The less fortunate people are
particularly vulnerable, which is why they created tango. This may also
explain why milongas are more crowded in bad times than in good times, why
more women dance tango than men, and why the revival of tango happens now when
there are more travelers, immigrants and refugees in the world than ever
before. Tango will always be the dance of the lonely, homesick, nostalgic,
needy, vulnerable, sentimental and romantic. The fortunate people need tango,
too, if they are not blind by their success and arrogance. After all, we are
human, and tango is for all who search inward for their humanity.