Tango is not just a fascinating dance—it is a rich philosophy, culture, and way of life. The search of tango is the search of connection, love, fellowship, unity, harmony, and beauty—an idealism that is not consistent with the dehumanizing reality of the modern world. The world divides us into individuals, but tango brings us together as a team. In tango we are not individualists, feminists, nationalists, Democrats, or Republicans—we are simply human, intertwined and interdependent. Tango invites us to tear down walls, build bridges, and rediscover our shared humanity through connection, cooperation, accommodation, and compromise. It is a dance that reminds the world how to love.
March 18, 2017
Dancing around the Man
Tango masters Alberto Paz and Valorie Hart introduced a vital concept back in 1998: the man dances around the dance floor, and the woman dances around the man. Yet even today, many students struggle to fully grasp its meaning. In essence, as the leader navigates the floor, he may need to step away from his partner. It is the follower's role to stay with him—to maintain proximity and connection throughout the dance.
Many women assume they are close enough to their partner, but in practice, they often are not. Some, uncomfortable with physical intimacy, use their arms to push the partner away or lean back to create space. Others resist the feeling of surrender and try to maintain independence. Those fond of flashy moves sometimes take exaggerated steps, unknowingly pulling away. Many have never learned how to dance in a close embrace and don’t yet understand how to sustain a compact connection.
Tango is an intimate dance. To experience its full beauty, the woman must integrate into the man, so they can move as one cohesive body. While the leader charts the course across the floor, the follower must remain intimately connected. This requires dissociation—specifically, the ability to isolate the movement of the hips from the upper body (see Dissociation and Gear Effect). A woman who lacks this ability tends to rotate her entire frame rather than just her lower body, which breaks the embrace and disrupts the flow. This is why dancing with an inexperienced partner often feels disjointed.
Here is a good example of how a woman should dance around the man.
Dancing around the man also involves molinete—a figure in which the woman revolves around the man, who serves as the anchor for her rotation. The sequence typically includes a forward step, a side step, a back step, and another side step, forming a circle around him. While many tangueras know the molinete in theory, few execute it with true fluidity and musicality. Often, this is due to insufficient training in dissociation.
Foot placement is also crucial. A common error is stepping too far from the man’s foot in an effort to avoid leg contact. But in fact, leg contact isn’t something to fear—it actually helps keep the movement compact and sensual. However, the woman should visualize a circle around his standing foot, with a radius of about six inches to one foot. As she moves around him, she must place her foot along this imaginary circular path. Stepping too far outward introduces unnecessary distance (see 6:20–8:00 in the video below), while stepping too close will disrupt the leaning posture when the turn completes.
In short, four elements are critically important regarding to dancing around the man. First, understanding that the woman's job is not to dance around the floor but to dance around the man. Second, maintaining a good embrace in a slightly leaning posture to secure the torso connection and mutual support while dancing. Third, spending a lot of time to practice dissociation in the molinete sequence until you are versed in swiveling your hips side to side in that leaning position. Finally, focusing on being one with the man rather than on your own performance, and being careful about how to keep the movement compact and where to place your foot so that the two of you may always remain a cohesive one in the dance.
Ultimately, for a woman, learning tango isn’t about memorizing steps. It’s about cultivating a deep, embodied connection with her partner. How she embraces this idea will shape her experience of the dance. Tango is, above all, an intimate conversation—and its true beauty lies in that connection.
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