Tango is not just a fascinating dance—it is a rich philosophy, culture, and way of life. The search of tango is the search of connection, love, fellowship, unity, harmony, and beauty—an idealism that is not consistent with the dehumanizing reality of the modern world. The world divides us into individuals, but tango brings us together as a team. In tango we are not individualists, feminists, nationalists, Democrats, or Republicans—we are simply human, intertwined and interdependent. Tango invites us to tear down walls, build bridges, and rediscover our shared humanity through connection, cooperation, accommodation, and compromise. It is a dance that reminds the world how to love.



September 15, 2012

Tango Is a Feeling


We often hear that steps are tango’s “vocabulary.” Like words, steps are tools—a medium through which music and emotion find expression. At its core, tango is not about the steps themselves; it’s about what those steps express. As someone famously put it, “Tango is a feeling that is danced.”

Defining feelings is no simple task. They span a vast spectrum—emotions, sentiments, moods, daydreams, euphoria, sorrow, excitement, and even the elusive duende. In essence, tango evokes a unique state of mind—one in which we feel most alive: exuberant, creative, fluent, eloquent, and fulfilled. Yet this state is often fleeting and elusive. It can arise unbidden, unpredictably—or not at all, even when we long for it. Still, anyone who has truly felt it knows its power. For many of us, that feeling is what makes tango so profoundly addictive (see The Psychology in Tango).

One of tango’s most potent keys to unlocking deep emotion is its music. High-quality tango music is essential for a truly satisfying experience. It awakens our imagination, frees our expression, and fuels our creativity on the dance floor. The most compelling music—marked by clear rhythms, evocative melodies, and emotional depth—does far more than provide structure. It resonates within us, stirs our soul, sets our mood, and elevates us into that rare, transformative state of mind. When we reflect on a memorable milonga, it is not the sequence of steps that lingers in our memory but the emotional resonance created by exquisite music and meaningful connections.

Yet music alone isn’t enough. The embrace is equally vital. Tango’s essence lies, perhaps most profoundly, in the embrace (see The Fourteenth Pitfall of a Tanguera). Contrary to what beginners may think, the embrace is not just a physical frame or hold. It is the connection that unites us, the communication that links our hearts, the intimacy that comforts our souls, and the physical touch that sparks chemistry. The embrace fulfills our profound needs, providing connection, belonging, and a sense of completeness. It brings us back to something primal and comforting—the warmth of a mother’s chest, the protection of a father’s arms, the cradle of infancy, the safety of home. Tango reminds us that we are not our best when we are alone, but when we are together. In its purest form, tango is a longing for “home,” found in one another as we dance, becoming whole through unity. Without the embrace, tango loses its soul and becomes just another dance.

If the embrace is essential, so too is the partner. That transcendent feeling is impossible to reach when dancing with someone who doesn’t understand how to truly embrace (see The Connection between Partners). Unfortunately, a pedagogy centered solely on steps often produces such dancers. They avoid closeness, lean away to create space, cling mechanically, and remain emotionally absent. These dancers miss the very heart of tango.

Dancing tango is akin to holding a baby in your arms, singing a lullaby while gently rocking her to sleep, or resting comfortably in a parent’s embrace, swayed tenderly by a hymn into a dream. Tango is warm. It’s safe. It’s shared. Its music, its embrace, and its rhythmic movement combine to cast a hypnotic spell, carrying us to a place so blissful we hesitate to return when the tanda ends (see The Cradle Effect). Yes, steps are necessary—but only to serve the embrace, to keep us moving together. Tango mirrors a real-life relationship: full of challenges, but sustained by unity, support, trust, and love. It demands surrender, devotion, and the courage to stay connected (see Tango Is a Relationship).

If you can see tango from this perspective, I guarantee you will experience a completely different dance—intimate, romantic, comforting, dreamy, soulful, and deeply satisfying (see Tango and Romanticism).





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