Tango is not only a fascinating dance, but also a fascinating culture, idea, lifestyle, and philosophy. In many ways, tango is a metaphor of life. The pursuit of tango is the pursuit of connection, love, beauty, harmony and humanity, i.e., an idealism that is not consistent with the dehumanizing reality of the modern world. The world divides us as individuals, but tango unites us as a species. In tango we are not individualists, feminists, nationalists, liberals, conservatives, Democrats, Republicans, etc., but interconnected and interdependent members of the human family. We are humanists. Tango calls us to tear down the walls, to build bridges, and to regain humanity through connection, cooperation and compromise. If you share this conviction, please join the conversation and let your voice be heard, which is urgently needed and long overdue.

Together we can awaken the world.




November 29, 2013

Men's Common Mistakes in Tango


1. Not listening to music
For some men, failure to dance to the music is because they do not know how to listen to tango music. (See The Characteristics of Classic Tango.) For others, it is because they are so focused on leading the steps that they cannot hear the music. The former is a problem of musicality. The latter is that of attention allocation. Dancing tango requires the ability to allot attention to many elements simultaneously, including embrace, connection, posture, movement, partner, coordination, relaxation, decoration and music, etc. Among which listening to the music must be the priority, because dancing tango is dancing the music, not the steps. The latter is but an expression of the former. In leading, the man must first pay attention to the music. He must not only think of the steps that he is leading and forget about the music.

2. The steps are too difficult
Some men like to lead difficult steps that are beyond their comfortable zone, which require so much of their attention that they become heedless of the other aspects of the dance. Beginners often mistake complexity for beauty. But in fact one has nothing to do with the other. On the contrary, keeping the steps simple will be easier for the dancers to allocate attention, listen to the music, relax the body, perfect the movement, and enjoy the relationship. Unlike stage tango that features performance, social tango emphasizes the feelings and communications between the partners. Therefore, simple steps are more suitable. To dance social tango with difficult steps of stage tango could easily backfire. (See Social Tango and Performance Tango.)

3. Leading with the hands
Many men lead with the hands for a number of reasons. First, one's long-standing habit is hard to break. Second, it's easier to lead with the hands than with the torso. Third, with the help of the hands it is facile to do steps. Forth, many women prefer dance in open hand holds, leaving men little choice but using the hands. Fifth, beginners often see tango as steps rather than relationship, feelings and music interpretation, although the opposite is closer to the truth. (See Tango Is a Feeling.) Finally, in order to teach steps, many teachers encourage their students to use the open embrace, which reinforces the habit of using the hands. However, using the hands to lead conflicts with the essence of tango, that is, intimacy, sensuality, comfort, oneness and synchronization. Tango has been from its birth a dance of close embrace and torso leading, which distinguishes it from other partner dances. For the man, learning tango is primarily learning to lead with his torso, that is, to effect the movement of the woman's body with his body, not his hands. Beginners must overcome the habit of using the hands, and develop the ability to lead with the torso.

4. Sending mixed signals
The problem of hand leading is that it often contradicts the body. Those who rely on the hands usually do not know how to lead with the torso. When their hands put forth strength in one direction but the torso does not turn or move accordingly, that could send mixed signals. The fundamental solution to this problem is to supersede hand leading with torso leading. Arms and hands should be completely relaxed in leading and used only to form a supportive frame rather than to coerce the woman to submit. Unawareness of the function of the body often causes the man to lead with the hands while his weight is not completely transferred from one foot to the other. But, since the partners are connected, the incompleteness of his weight change means that she too has not yet completed her weight change. Asking her to take a step in such a position is demanding the impossible. She must complete her weight change before following the lead, resulting in the incoherence of the dance. Such errors caused by using the hands could be avoided if the man uses his torso to lead. (See The Functions of Various Body Parts in Tango.)

5. Bending over
I stress leading with the torso rather than with the chest, because the entire upper body is utilized in leading. Using the chest to lead could cause a tall man to bend over with his buttock sticks out, which not only looks inelegant, but may also add pressure on the woman, causing her to bend backwards. The correct posture is to keep the body upright and tall. In order to maintain an elegant posture, a tall man should use his stomach instead of chest to lead a short woman.

6. Bowing the head
Many couples stick their cheeks together in tango as a sign of intimacy. However, if the man is much taller than the woman, this could cause him to bow his head, curve his torso, hold his chest in, stick his buttock out, and bend his knees, which not only look awful, but also add pressure on the woman. A tall man and a short woman would be better not tango together. If they choose to dance together, then the woman may rest her head on his chest, but the man should not bend over to meet her head with his. Rather, he should stand tall, keeping his torso upright, chest out, head up, and knees straight.

7. Coercing the woman to submit
An immature leader may think of follow as unconditional surrender and obedience. However, the surrender and obedience in tango is not unilateral, but mutual. Tango is about intimacy, empathy, adaptation, comfort, harmony and freedom. Both lead and follow should be gentle, thoughtful, moderate and comfortable. To lead is not to coerce, but to guide, support, collaborate, adapt, protect, and help the woman to unfold her skills and beauty. Just as the woman should submit to the lead, the man, too, should submit to the need of the woman. There must not be any coerce in leading.

8. Self-centeredness
An inexperienced man often thinks from his own perspective and fails to take into consideration the balance, axis, time, space and support that the woman needs in her dancing. Examples of his self-centeredness include taking care only of his own balance and overlooking hers, leading her to take a step while her balance is not yet in place, letting her rotate on a tilted axis, leading her to move but blocking her path, not giving her enough time to finish her step, leading her to do things beyond her ability, and so on. Such could cause her to feel coerced and uncomfortable. The man must think from the standpoint of the woman, constantly adjust his position, embrace, posture, weight, speed, movement, etc., to adapt to her needs and facilitate her dance, so that she can feel free.

9. Not giving her support
Letting her be free in the dance does not mean letting her dance alone without your support. An inexperienced man often just sends a signal and then waits for the woman to follow, but fails to provide the support that she needs in her dancing. In fact, such support is crucial because she is leaning on you. If you withdraw your support, even if you lean back only slightly, that could cause her to lose balance and compromise the quality of her dance. When she moves away from you, you have to follow her to maintain your support for her. When she moves into you, you have to retreat while not lose the support for her. Otherwise, she will feel falling away.

10. Overlooking ancillary actions
The lack of understanding of the structure of the movement is another problem of a beginner. Most steps in tango are not composed of only one action, but a combination of several actions. For example, dancing the ocho from the crossed position includes five actions: unwinding, taking a forward step, pivoting and swiveling the hips, taking another forward step, and pivoting and swiveling the hips again. Thus, the entire sequence needs to be led in five action steps. If you do not break down the sequence and attempt to bring out two actions in one lead, that will make it hard for the woman. Beginners tend to focus on the main action and overlook the ancillary action. For example, the man may directly lead the woman to take a forward step without unwinding her crossed leg first, or lead her to step forward while she is yet to complete her pivot and hip rotation.

11. Lacking of sophisticated musicality
The tendency of overlooking ancillary actions is reflected especially in the beginner’s handling of music. The musicality of the beginner is often raw and untrained. He may be able to identify the rhythm and lead the woman to step on the beat, but his handling of the ancillary actions is often crude and unmusical. Still use the example of the ocho, in which the beginner tends to focus on the main action, i.e., the forward step. Once a forward step is made, he immediately moves on to lead the next forward step. While both steps may be led on the beat, the transitional action between the two steps, namely pivot and rotation, often is led without smoothness. Such lead cannot satisfy a mature follower, who wants the leader to handle all aspects of the entire sequence in an exquisite way that every detail of the sequence meets the rhythm, melody, speed and mood of the music perfectly. Only in such a fashion dancing tango becomes truly a treat.

12. Self-exhibition
We sometimes see men short of good taste use their partner as a foil for their own self-display. Such men have invented more and more exhibitional steps for themselves, showing off at the milonga and drawing eyeballs to their performance. In my view this is a bad trend in tango today, because it is against the essence of tango. A man does not need to compete with the woman for attention. On the contrary, his job is to display her beauty. Instead of drawing eyeballs to himself, he should focus on making her feel pampered in his arms, shining her, and letting her be the center of attention. A leader's maturity is measured by how his partner dances, not by his own exhibition.

4 comments:

  1. "Catch us if you can! We were young with all of our hearts!"

    Most of us did not start doing the tango in order the get the ocho just right. Most of us saw elegant, dramatic and erotic moves in a performance that took our breath away. Then we take tango lessons and dance among older people who look down their noses at beginners for not doing the details as well as they can, who are quite conservative in their tastes, who are uptight about the eroticism, who are offended when attractive young people look better at the erotic movements than they do, and who are too weak, inflexible, heavy, and cowardly to do the more dramatic moves. You try to get along with the teachers and older established dancers, so you take on some of their cautious attitudes. Then you find you're getting more and more fussy at a very different dance than the one you wanted to do in the first place.

    It is impossible to do something bolder or more creative without mistakes. In any creative community (dancers, artists, poets, scholars) there is a playful, tolerant attitude toward people trying new stuff. If you try something that doesn't work, instead of saying you're being egotistical and selfish, they laugh, say good for you, you took risks, and added to the creative possibilities of our community. That conservative "no new movements", (or at least not unless you can do them perfectly) attitude is the death of creativity, evolution and life. It maintains tango as an antiquarian cult.

    The idea of dividing tango into social dance and "show" dance trivializes efforts to be more creative and to actually do the dance that we were attracted to in the first place. Performance is not just for tourists. It includes ballet, modern dance, jazz and other rich, culturally important forms. It can be brilliant and revolutionary, changing the way we think. It can give tango dance its Isadora Duncans, Sergei Diaghilevs, Merce Cunnihams and Astor Piazzollas. Tango and dance have always included a conversation between performance and social dance. Both should be respected as spaces in which creativity can take place. That's how art and culture evolve in living ways.

    Some ladies like cautious dancing. However, most young ladies love it when you want to do something crazy, at least until the older, cautious ones tut-tut them into submission. Doing bold movements is not selfish. The "tango Nazis" who try to exclude the playful dramatic moves that young people can do are the selfish ones.

    Should they run before they can walk? Yes! Young dancers can often learn bold lifts quickly and beautifully, long before they perfect going to the cross. There is no reason to delay teaching a lift to a young, strong, light, flexible dancer. We should learn the bold move while we can. We should not have to wait months or years until we are not physically capable of doing them anymore.

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    1. The commercial culture is all about catching and impressing, it promotes constant changes, repackaging, exoticism, "creativity" and "boldness". People grown up in such culture and philosophy exhibit a lack of depth and lasting quality. They confuse bizarreness with beauty, focus too much on flashy forms rather than substances, and constantly seek change and novelty. Commercialism is one of the reasons that get this culture into trouble. Unfortunately, some people don't realize it.

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    2. Tango is a creation of modernity - of industrialization that formed a sophisticated, cosmopolitan, urban, working class composed of immigrants from all over the world. It's also a creation of modern mass media - the phonograph and radio - that allowed it to project around the world.

      Tango, as you say in your history, went through many changes. It grew and evolved. It has always incorporated outside elements. You point out correctly that the Tango shows overseas - first in the early 20th Century and again in the 1990s revived the tango.Those foreign elements in a way are not foreign at all. They are intrinsic to the tango.

      I sympathize with your criticism of commercial culture. However, the modern world has exponentially increased the richness of our culture. There are, as you say, critics of commercial culture who hearken back to "Golden Ages" real and imagined - Luddites, catonists, and plain reactionaries. But at this point that is pretty clearly a dead end. Successful criticism of shallow,exploitative commercial culture is going to have to be creative to survive. Progressives, visionaries, and idealists, who get anywhere look to improving the future, not returning to the past.

      Part of the reason creative idealists are more successful is that creativity, innovation, and progress have produced some great things. Some experiments don't work, or are uninspired, but enough of them have been truly inspired that most people see progress as a good thing. I would have to agree with them. Deep, rich modern art forms include modern classical music, jazz, blues, modern dance, jazz dance, movies, architecture, poetry, literature, theater, and so on. Tango is completely part of that. All of these art forms, including tango, have continued to evolve.

      You say wisely, in your statement on why people quit tango that we need to be open and tolerant. Part of that is being open to experiments and changes that new members bring.

      It especially requires being open to young people. Young people like to experiment. All of these new people will bring new cultural influences, as young people and foreigners have always done in Tango history.

      One of the main things young people bring is greater physicality. They bring bigger bolder stuff. They can do it better than older people. We need to encourage young people to join us and to bring their changes, cultural inputs, strength, beauty and exuberance. Let them run. Don't make them slow down to our speed. When we were young we ran hard. We need to give them freedom to do so. Teaching young dancers, I learn more from them than they do from me. We try to catch one another if we can. We play. We enjoy dancing and tango brilliantly.

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    3. Most people understand the importance of creativity. But not everyone understands its drawbacks. Every time I bought a smart phone, a smarter one is invented next day. In economic terms this is called "creating demands," so people will throw away their perfectly functional old phones and keep buying new ones. How do you think the natural resources are depleted and the environment destroyed? Human creativity may lead us to a promising future, it may also lead us to destruction, if we think that is the only thing important. Whatever new steps you create, someone will outsmart you the next day, I promise. How do you think you can dance socially if everyone brings his new steps that you don't know?

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