Tango is not just a fascinating dance—it is a rich philosophy, culture, and way of life. The search of tango is the search of connection, love, fellowship, unity, harmony, and beauty—an idealism that is not consistent with the dehumanizing reality of the modern world. The world divides us into individuals, but tango brings us together as a team. In tango we are not individualists, feminists, nationalists, Democrats, or Republicans—we are simply human, intertwined and interdependent. Tango invites us to tear down walls, build bridges, and rediscover our shared humanity through connection, cooperation, accommodation, and compromise. It is a dance that reminds the world how to love.
September 6, 2019
Learning Tango: Two Perspectives
Certain behaviors are common among tango beginners: (1) They are eager to learn steps but often overlook foundational skills. (2) They mimic movements without attention to technical details. (3) They focus on themselves rather than on connecting with their partner. (4) They lean back to avoid close physical contact. (5) They lead or follow using their arms and hands. (6) They hold on to their partner to help themselves move. (7) They fail to truly listen to and follow the music (see Imitating Steps vs. Developing Skills).
All of these tendencies stem from a fundamental misconception: they see tango solely as a series of steps. For them, learning tango means memorizing and reproducing steps. They assume that if they can perform the steps, they can dance tango. But this step-centric mindset causes them to overlook many other essential elements of the dance.
It's crucial to understand that in tango, what we dance is not the steps, but the music—and the emotions the music inspires. Tango is a feeling expressed through movement. Steps are merely the tools we use to interpret the music and convey emotion. Among all the elements that define tango, music and the feelings it evokes are paramount. Without them, tango becomes little more than a set of acrobatic exercises (see Tango Is a Feeling).
Of course, steps are necessary—you need them to dance. But knowing steps alone doesn’t mean you can dance them musically or in harmony with a partner. Tango is a collaborative act, where the man leads the woman using his body. The woman’s role is not to perform her steps independently but to respond to the lead. When she concentrates on executing the steps on her own, it disrupts the connection. That’s why dancing with a beginner often feels awkward or disconnected.
The man’s lead is guided by the music. When the music is sharp, his lead is sharp. When the music softens, so does his lead. The same step can—and should—be danced differently, depending on the mood of the music. Instead of focusing on her own execution, the woman should focus on sensing the lead and expressing the music through her response.
Each lead communicates something specific. For example, if the man's right chest pushes while his left chest pulls, it signals the woman to swivel her hips to his right. If his left chest pushes and the right pulls, it asks her to swivel left. Often, these signals are so subtle that they can only be felt, not seen. Tango is a sophisticated form of body language. Learning tango is less about mastering steps and more about learning that body language—learning to sense, respond, communicate, and merge with your partner through your body (see Tango Is a Language (I)).
This perspective shifts the dancer’s focus from steps to body, embrace, connection, communication, music, and the emotions it stirs. It’s about using your body to feel, to share feelings with your partner, to express and exchange emotions through direct physical interaction, to move your body in harmony with your partner's body, and ultimately, to bring pleasure to your partner with your body.
Tango is not just any dance. It’s an intimate exchange between two people. Instead of merely imitating steps, let your goal be to make dancing with you a joy for your partner. Let that be the true focus of your learning and practice.
The transformation from a step-oriented, self-centered, single-focused beginner to a feeling-oriented, partner-centered, multitasking team player is a lengthy process. Beginners cannot fully grasp the essence of tango until they have acquired sufficient knowledge, skills, and experience. However, adopting the right perspective from the very beginning can set you on the correct path—and significantly shorten your journey toward becoming a proficient tango dancer (see The Four Stages of the Tango Journey).
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